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Friday, September 12, 2014

A Career!

Journaled: September 2014
     I have a tendency to want to write about big life changes....like the only ones really were getting pregnant, and having a baby, graduating, and moving. So now the newest life change is Perry's new career! After Perry graduated we knew this was the most logical next big step in our lives; To find that career. We always planned on him becoming a community college professor. This seemed like a nice choice, he loves to teach others, and it isn't as insecure as translating which are normal contractual positions. But teaching college can also be iffy because you really don't feel secure until you become a tenure. Also the other cons are that you can be way more busy than a 40 hour week, and your schedule can effect the evening depending on what class you teach. The other job options were maybe finding one through the government as a linguist. Most of those jobs are on bases or in DC.
     We knew there were other opportunities out there but we weren't really sure what they were until Perry accepted a job offer from an awesome company called Imagine Learning last December. He would get a pay raise from his last job, and not be doing sales, but supporting sales. While working for this company we have grown to love the family like atmosphere. They are so welcoming and supportive of their employees. We found they have several opportunities for the type of degree Perry pursued and we were excited for the many opportunities that would unfold to us within the next few years. Perry started that position January. I figured Perry would work for 1-2 years for them and then he might land a career. But then the company was bought by another cooperation and this new boss man wanted to grow the company at a very fast rate, which meant more and more jobs would open up quickly.
     I feared that due to Perry's lack of time in the company he wouldn't be seriously considered for any of them, despite his enthusiasm. We would miss the boat. We knew that in the next 4-5 months many positions would open up and Perry would eagerly apply for all of them. We thought, by February we would know if Imagine Learning was the company that he would work for through out his career or not.  Then by then, it would be perfect timing to start job searching professor jobs for the August 2015 year, since that is when they start being posted. Perry complained in an evaluation that he didn't even have an interview for a job that was posted in June. So when they presented yet another position in the company to everyone, we thought, why not. Give it a shot. Apply, show your interest, get to know the bosses. Let yourself be known. Be almost obnoxiously present. (All tips from BYU Alumni career services that I was aware of but Perry wasn't)
     So after a couple weeks Perry was told at the end of a Thursday that he would be given an interview the next day in the morning! We were so excited. This was his first interview for a career job. I bought him a new white shirt, ironed his whole outfit, and polished and shined his shoes, all while he was feverishly preparing for the interview as well as the presentation they asked him to have ready. We prayed to  Heavenly Father that we would understand His will in the matter and that we would like Perry to get this job, and for him to do his best and to guide his words, and if it be right, he would get the job, and if it wasn't right that he would not get it and we would understand and anxiously await the next opportunity.
     The next day I was excited for Perry, I even took a picture of him before he left for work lol. He had his interview, and felt a little discouraged by his answers to a couple questions. However the more we thought about it together he felt better about it. Then later in the day Perry shadowed a related job title to the position he was interviewing for.  Over the weekend we would pray that the interviewers were guided by the spirit in their decision and put it out of our minds. Monday rolled around and at 2ish Perry mentioned that he was meeting with one of the interviewers. I was overwhelmed with anxiety.  Couldn't breathe. I didn't tell Perry. I didn't want to make him nervous. Then a minute later Perry called me. I thought he was killing time before he met with the guy. Perry thought it was funny, since I didn't ask him right away about it.
     He got the job! It was unbelievable. The first career interview, less than 3 months from his graduation date, Perry lands a career position with the most incredible company he has ever worked for. We felt just an overwhelming feeling of gratitude and love from our Heavenly Father blessing us so soon with a career that couldn't seem to come soon enough but also so suddenly. I was amazed. I was slightly skeptical about the job interview in the first place due to Perry's previous complaint about not being considered for another job, I thought maybe they were just giving him a courtesy interview and would move on. If that was the case it would have pacified Perry. But he got it. They legitimately thought he was the best candidate for the position. That's my man! I'm so proud of him. I called my immediate family. It was just as exciting as telling them that I was pregnant each time. They were of course all thrilled and happy for us. And after he got home we decided to celebrate by being frugal but still splurging in our own little way: Taco Bell dinner and Yogurtland dessert! Which by the way, for those who are dairy free ice cream chocolate lovers, for the first time in 2 years they have a chocolate sorbet dairy free! Yes!
     As the days go on from that day the truth is slowly sinking in. Like the reality of staying in Utah until possibly retiring is amazing. The fact that we don't have to relocate is amazing. I have grown to love Utah the last 3 and half years living here and especially everything south of Lehi, and north of Payson. Its beautiful which means a lot to me. The fact that we can stay where we are in our cheap apartment and save money so fast so that we can buy a house. That these huge majestic mountains will always be around. That provo canyon will always be there for us to explore its beauty. That we will be close to several temples. That we can visit SLC and all the history up there whenever. We are centrally located among my family and close to Perry's family. We love the rich mormon community surrounding us. And we love that we are not in limbo any longer and we know this before having another baby.
   So details about the job. Perry's new title is Implementation Specialist/Education Support Consultant. As far as I know he makes more than what he would make as a professor. Has greater advantages for growth in the current job and within the company for a higher salary. Money isn't everything but it definitely makes a difference when we have worthy modest goals of owning a modest home. We don't plan to change our budget except to accommodate different health care coverage since we are no longer poor enough for medicaid. Also we will add a date portion of our budget which has usually come out of my food budget. But other than that we are going to live like we are poor since we are used to it until we get our emergency fund in place, a home and then still live "poor" as we get a handle on our retirement.
     Perry will be installing and training teachers the program of Imagine Learning in Salt lake, and going all over Utah to help the schools who aren't doing so well catch up. Half his job will be at the provo office so he still gets the yummy food that Imagine Learning always has, and gets to see his old friends. He starts on Tuesday for the next pay period.
It is a blessing. We are so grateful everyday.

Monday, August 12, 2013

Carly is 1!!!

   I can hardly believe my baby girl is 1 already! Grant's 1st year drug on and on and Carly's has flown by. I have heard that is common among parents with more than one child. So I expect the next baby's life to fly even faster. Its weird. Carly is a delight. I love her so much and she just makes me so happy. When Grant would whine and cry I would get stressed and anxious. When Carly does, it makes me smile because she is so cute. Grant gets cuter the older he is. Today I was about to tell him to step away because I didn't want him watching my video during alone time since it wasn't exactly for his age group and he just looked at me and batted his eye lashes with the most adorable smile and I said, "You are so cute!" so now every time he wants something or asks me for something he starts blinking and looking at me lol. He's trying to work "it" I can tell. lol.
   Anyway, so Carly's birthday party was a lot of fun. To preface though, the party looks simple and easy to set up but it took all day!!!!!! It deserves exclamation points because I was so exhausted by the end of cleaning up and dishes. It also blew over a vase I had the branches in and broke it, then it down-poured on everything, but alas when the party started it was overcast and nice and then sunny and great temperatures and weather to be outside. Two great families joined us for the party.  Another family left a present and couldn't make it as well as a couple other families. I think a lot of people were out of town. They missed a good one. Too bad. I throw awesome parties!! I have a passion for planning and putting together themes so those of you who feel like "oh man, we should do more for our kids", its all because I just love to do it. The only reason. If I didn't love planning parties and throwing them we would have basic family cake and ice cream parties with no decorations or activities.
     In honor of Carly's birthday week we went to Thanksgiving Point Farm Country on $2 Tuesday. On Carly's birthday we went to the Splash pad at the Riverwoods in Provo, UT. Then later we picked up daddy from work and went to taco bell dinner (she really likes cheese roll ups), then to McDonald's for a kiddie cone, which she had a monkey's grasp of and wouldn't let go, and then we played at their play place. When we got home I gave her a mini cupcake with a candle and did the little happy birthday song, she enjoyed her cupcake, and then off to bed.
   Her party was on that Saturday a couple days after her birthday. We did a Birdbath birthday party and had the kids play in our little pools, and slide, and the older kids made bird masks. Then we ate some dinner which was worm dogs (hot dogs cut in slices and boiled to look like worms), baked beans, and rainbow fruit kabobs. Then we had the birthday cake which was worms in dirt cookies in cupcake containers, and opened presents. Carly loves the water and love birds so we combined the two for the bird bath theme. I found a person who had several free party printables for the party. She got a my little pony horse, 2 cute dresses, and a bottle to sippy cup. We are working on the transition. They were all perfect gifts. We are glad we spent a fun evening with great people.
   Carly has been trying to stand up with out support of anything. She still falls and is determined to stand up every time she falls. She is realizing the joy of walking with my hands as support. She is drinking just milk now and we are working on just using a sippy cup. She is a joy, easy to get her to smile and laugh. She follows Grant around and tries to play with him. She dances by twisting back and forth and bobbing her head. She claps when she's happy. Reads books to her self and thinks its hilarious when a book puppet moves. She says ball, meows, says nana for food, meh for milk, boom, mama, dada, she cleans up and dumps things out, she loves to be outside, she loves birds of course. She is all around silly. We love her and enjoy every moment.
   She had her shots and well check today. She weighs 19lbs, a whopping 5 lbs since her check up at 9 months. This makes her in the 17th percentile, that's a quite a bit higher than the 1st percentile. Her height is 29.5 inches, which is the 63rd percentile! And her head is 44.4cm which is the 30th percentile. She's growing! Now some eye candy:


I told him how milk comes from cows from right there and told him to milk the cow. He wouldn't touch it. lol.

Carly and Grant loves the animals. The animals kept licking her fingers lol.


That horse kept trying to nibble her fingers. Then he snarfed on us twice.

She loved the ducks of course. The one animal that we can see with out paying at our own duck pond.



On the tractor ride.

Cute baby cow nursing.

This one's for you Grandpa Jim, since you love cows and Grant.

Birthday outfit! Thanks Amber!


Riverwoods splash pad is way better than the Pioneer park one. It had practically no one there whereas the Pioneer park one is always way to packed. 



Very serious ice cream business. Too good to stop for a smiley picture. First ice cream cone.

Party pics!



I didn't notice my pic was so blurry. 

Worms in dirt cupcakes and "So TWEET of you to come!" toppers.

Bird decor.





Bird mask decorating.








Worm dogs.


Mmmm cake squeezing.

In the hair. Can you believe we didn't bathe her after this lol. We kind of. We put her in a pool but still. 


Little friends. 




Ooops out of order picture. Grant loves feeding the animals. He thought it was hilarious!